Rerelease: December & The Carrot Dangling Abuser | Domestic Violence & Narcissist Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 6 January 2025

⏱️ 84 minutes

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December and her future ex-boyfriend became fast friends through their local music scene. December felt seen for the first time, but the relationship December wanted was dangled in front of her like a carrot on a moving stick. Always out of reach, yet not. It's a story of triangulation, gaslighting, minimization, adoption, fear, control, isolation, suicide attempts, suicide threats, physical abuse, sexual coercion, push/pulls, self acceptance, put downs, self worth, despair, relief, the player, financial abuse, lies, fake illnesses, jealousy, hypocrisy, self defense, and much more. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses suicide attempts, suicide threats, sexual coercion, and physical abuse in graphic detail. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	This episode is brought to you by the current account switch service.
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0:20.1	Find out more at currentaccount switch.com.
0:22.6	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named December,
0:31.8	and December was in a toxic relationship with a carrot dangling abuser. It's a story of self-worth, isolation, push-pulls,
0:41.5	triangulation, and financial abuse.
1:07.8	Music. The Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
1:15.2	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have December.
1:16.3	How are you?
1:18.4	Doing really good, Brandon.
1:23.2	Well, thank you very much for being here.
1:31.2	And if you want to be a guest on our show like December is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com.
1:33.9	Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form.
1:36.8	When you click on that button, it takes you to our guest form page.
1:45.0	There you can read all of our instructions and either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press the submit button.
1:52.8	And please do send it in the format that we ask for. And today you are going to hear December's story. And it's a little different from some others as December and her ex aren't officially a couple
2:00.3	for a very long time in this story. It begins as a
2:02.8	friendship with a really built-in long game dangling carrot. And a big content warning for this
2:10.6	episode. We have graphic discussion of sexual coercion, suicide attempts, suicide threats,
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