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We Talk Back

The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts

Comedy, Society & Culture

4.4 • 737 Ratings

🗓️ 30 January 2026

⏱️ 82 minutes

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Summary

*Originally aired July 31st, 2025

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by guest Vanity Wear for a wide-ranging conversation that blends real talk with professional insight. They unpack the nuance of declining fertility rates, the 'Tea' app controversy, and the nuanced realities of modern dating. Vanity shares her experiences as a Black woman in tech, shedding light on burnout, code-switching, and the value of staying authentic in corporate spaces. They also explore the blurred lines between therapy and life coaching, how self-worth extends beyond job titles, and the subtle ways financial control shows up in relationships. With humor and depth, this episode offers a roadmap for navigating both career and connection with intention. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.

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0:00.0	This is an I-Heart podcast.
0:02.5	Guaranteed Human.
0:04.3	Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of IHeart Radio and the Black Effect Network.
0:11.0	Talk to them.
0:13.2	We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks back.
0:20.5	What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of We Talk Back. It up, y'all?
0:21.5	Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of We Talk Back.
0:23.6	It's your girl, AJ Holiday.
0:25.5	What's our, Tandam?
0:26.8	Y'all is Big Tam Bam.
0:28.3	I love y'all so, so very much.
0:31.2	And I missed y'all.
0:32.4	Thank you for coming back.
0:35.2	How was your weekend, AJ?
0:38.0	What weekend, okay?
0:39.5	Because I literally had a day and a half to myself yesterday.
0:42.8	I'm last week, okay?
0:44.2	That's all I had.
0:45.5	Excuse me, a half a day.
0:47.2	Not a day and a half.
0:48.8	Because we were working.
0:50.4	What do you mean?
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