In a culture that celebrates busyness, rest can feel almost impossible. In this episode, we explore the ancient and life-giving practice of Sabbath and why it matters now more than ever for our marriages and families. What did God intend the Sabbath to be—a rule to follow or a gift to receive? Through Scripture, practical wisdom, and real-life counseling insights, we unpack how rhythms of rest renew our emotional, spiritual, and relational health. You'll hear practical ways couples and families can begin reclaiming Sabbath together, even in the middle of busy and unpredictable schedules, and why choosing rest may be one of the most meaningful investments you can make in your home.

 

Episode Highlights:

Rest is a rhythm and a gift.

Rest shouldn't be legalistic, it's an invitation. 

Taking a sabbath has physical and spiritual benefits. 

Avoiding the sabbath can lead to spiritual dryness.

Culturally we are so distratcted and overly engaged; and it's not what we were designed for. 

 

Quotes from this episode:

Man was not made for the Sabbath, the Sabbath was made for man. It's a gift.

The Sabbath wasn't made to restrict us; it was made to refresh us.

When we're tired, we don't choose our battles well.

The sabbath reminds me who's really in charge.

As Christians sometimes we feel like the busier we are for God, the more we are being faithful- That's a lie.

Celebrating Sabbath looks different for everyone. Choose what brings you and your family closer to God.

Rest is not lazy.

It's not about not doing anything, it's about doing things differently.

If you're exhausted, you can't pour love, patience, or joy into your family. Rest is essential for healthy relationships.

You can't just hope for Sabbath rest—be intentional, make a plan, put it on the calendar, and protect that time.

 

Questions to Start the Conversation:

1. How does busyness currently show up in our marriage and family life, and what has it cost us emotionally, spiritually, or relationally?
   
   
2. What would a life-giving Sabbath look like for us in this season—what would we need to stop, start, or protect in order to experience true rest together?
   
   
3. What is one practical step we can take this week to begin building a rhythm of rest that honors God and strengthens our connection as a couple?
   

 

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