Welcome to our slash Am I the But Hole where someone expects their family member to just give them $120,000 a year for free.

Am I the But Hole for refusing to send my daughter to public school or ask my brother-in-law to pay for my step kids to go to private school?

I'm a 25-year-old woman and I have an 8-year-old daughter.

I had her when I was very young and her father was never in the picture.

My older sister, who's 34 and her 39 year old husband have helped me a lot.

Raising my daughter alone and going to college would have been impossible without them.

My sister is a stay-at-home mom and my brother-in-law is quite wealthy due to his family business.

They pay for my daughter to go to the same private school as their kids.

It's very expensive, but my brother-in-law can afford it, and I'm very grateful to them for giving my daughter more opportunities.

I recently got married, and my daughter,

and my husband, who's 36, has three daughters ages 12, 9, and 7.

They go to our local public school, which is good, but not as good as the private school my daughter goes to.

Last night, my husband told me that he thinks it's unfair that my daughter goes to a $40,000 a year private

school while his daughters have to go to a public school. He said that

next year I need to either send my daughter to public school or ask my brother-in-law

to pay for his daughters to go to private school. I told him that I'm not doing that because I want my daughter

to have all the opportunities that I didn't have. And my brother-in-law can't afford to send seven kids

to private school. He got mad at me and said that our kids are siblings now

and everything needs to be equal between them.

Am I the but hole?

Yo, hold on.

I can do the math on this.

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