Q&A! Unrequited Generosity, The Gossip Mill, And Once Ick, Always Ick? - Ep 281
Dear Shandy
Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
4.9 • 4K Ratings
🗓️ 1 February 2024
⏱️ 61 minutes
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Summary
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What are Shandy's thoughts on giving it another go with an ex who used to give you The Ick—Is it "Once Ick, Always Ick"? If your generosity with friends feels under appreciated, is it worth bringing up? And if your bestie plans an elaborate Bachelorette party getaway, as a bridesmaid, does not wanting to go make you the A-hole? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Q1: I’m Interested In Trying Again With My Newly Single Ex-Turned-Friend Who Used To Give Me The Ick—Shandy’s Advice?
11:08 - Q2: How Should I Handle My Toxic Ex-Coworker And Her Gossip Mill?
23:36 - Q3: I Was Generous With My Friends But Was Shown Little Appreciation—Who’s The A-Hole Here?
38:04 - Q4: AITA For Not Wanting To Attend An Entire 8-Day Bachelorette Getaway?
46:04 - Q5: I’m Furious My Mother-In-Law Is Backing Out Of A Very Costly Agreement—Help!
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | I'm not hypnotize you. |
| 0:01.7 | Three, two, one. |
| 0:07.5 | Dear Shandy. |
| 0:11.9 | Welcome back to Dear Shandy listeners. |
| 0:14.2 | Hello, Andy. |
| 0:15.4 | Hello. |
| 0:16.3 | Hello. |
| 0:17.5 | Oh, hello. |
| 0:18.2 | How are you today? |
| 0:19.7 | A little tired. |
| 0:23.5 | Yeah, I'm a little tired, too. I think you can hear it in our voices. |
| 0:27.9 | Yeah. Does my voice sound weird today? I think it's... It doesn't. Oh, really? I feel like it sounds... Your voice never sounds weird. I have a weird... My voice has much more range in weirdness than yours does. |
| 0:35.0 | I disagree. Really? Actually, I feel like my voice is right behind my nose right now. |
| 0:40.3 | Oh, I never knows. Your voice is always the same, no matter what the situation. Morning, night, |
| 0:46.2 | like happy, sad, always the same timbre. I didn't sleep that well because I made the mistake of going over |
| 0:52.6 | these questions for this Q&A really late last night |
| 0:56.1 | right before bed and then I was kept awake thinking about them all. |
| 1:00.7 | Oh, you've taken on everyone's troubles in your mind. |
| 1:03.8 | And I don't want that to seem like it's going to be a sad Q&A or anything. |
| 1:07.6 | I just think that I have to be better at like stopping at business hours. |
| 1:11.0 | Yeah. This is not a bedtime story for me. No Q&A or anything. I just think that I have to be better at like stopping at business hours. Yeah. This is not a bedtime story for me. No Q&A reading after 3 p.m. Yes. Also it makes me |
| 1:17.2 | happy that we are now doing more Q&A's because it means we can answer more Shandy's questions. |
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