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Dear Shandy

Q&A! Too Much Complaining, The Seed Of Resentment & Is "Boring" Healthy? - Ep 304

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Society & Culture, Relationships, After Shows

4.9 • 3.3K Ratings

🗓️ 25 April 2024

⏱️ 73 minutes

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Summary

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you have a tumultuous relationship history, is "boring" maybe a good thing? If you feel yourself becoming resentful in your relationship because your sacrifices outnumber your partner's, what to do? And not one, not two, but THREE heavy-hitting platonic friendship questions! What does Shandy consider a "friendship-reconsidering" level crime? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Q1: Does Healthy = Boring? 10:35 - Q2: My Friend Accused Me Of “Bitching & Complaining” And Our Friendship Is Suddenly Over—What Happened?! 23:50 - Q3: My Friend Moved Out Of Town And Now Zoom-Joins Our In-Person Hangs—Am I The Asshole For Disliking This? 33:46 - Q4: Should I Let My Friend’s Outrageous Wedding Request Make Me See Her Differently? 46:03 - Q5: I’ve Sacrificed More For This Relationship Than My Boyfriend Has And Am Feeling Resentful—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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invest. This is a high-risk investment and you should not expect to be

0:26.0

protected if something goes wrong. This is disgraceful. Yeah, I'm

0:30.1

disgusted. I don't like this person to the point where I want to meet them and tell them myself.

0:35.0

Dear Shandy. Welcome back to Dear Shandy listeners. Hello Andy. Hello. How are you today?

0:47.0

I've done all right.

0:48.0

Yeah, it's rainy day. It's a rainy Wednesday.

0:51.0

Yes. There's a difference between rainy and stormy. Oh really? Yeah, stormy is windy and rainy and so we decided it was a good day to record a Q and A. Yeah. We have nowhere else to be. No, let's do it. So we will answer our listeners

1:03.8

cues. Shall we get going? Yes. All right, this first question is from one

1:08.1

bored babe. Dear Shandy, thank you for the time and effort you put into your work as it truly accumulates into an obvious labor of love.

1:16.0

Thank you for letting us witness the beautiful love you've built and the friendship that holds you together.

1:20.0

How nice, thank you, one board, babe. Here is my dilemma. I, a 32 year old female, recently

1:26.7

entered my first committed relationship in three years. I have enjoyed dating around

1:31.6

flirting and getting to know different people, but my goal has always been to find my person as I am a true hopeless romantic.

1:38.0

However, I have a rather tumultuous relationship history that I've worked through in therapy and don't want to repeat.

1:43.7

Because of this I am hyper aware of how my mind and body respond when I'm around the

1:48.4

man I date. I haven't found anyone that I felt ready to commit to until now. My boyfriend is the most respectful, thoughtful,

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