Do you think it's just you as a ladies room? You didn't use a restroom. You weren't resting in there.

You weren't powdering your face in the powder room. Yeah, you were pinching loaf.

And that is something that people don't like to talk about and for good reason.

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Welcome back to Dear Shandee listeners. Hello Andy. Howdy. Howdy. We're in our living room.

Which means...

You. And? Yes, we continue to get great questions from you guys. Do you want to start nice and light?

There's a really big one in here that's very serious that I feel like I need to work my way up to.

Want to do that in the middle? Yeah. Okay. This question is from Jennifer.

Dear Shandee, love your podcast. Actually she wrote Hey Shandee.

I'm okay with that. As long as you use the proper name of Shandee. Okay.

My friend and I were discussing how to keep chemistry going long-term. I was in an 11-year marriage

where I eventually felt like the man's mother. And she's now in an open relationship because every time

she moves in with someone the spark seems to fade rather quickly and intimacy goes right out the window.

I'm currently in a relationship with spark to spare but we are discussing moving in and I'm scared.

What are your best tips? Stuff like don't go number two in front of each other. Keep shaving your legs, etc.

How do we keep the spark alive? It's interesting. It's an interesting point. She brings up because I've had

like zero tolerance farting relationships. Yeah. And I've had ones where it's like, you know,

okay, we're going to have a few here and there. A few here and there. Yeah. Okay.

But I think it's sort of it's it's it's a chicken or egg because I think if you're having

open pooping and farting in your relationship, it could be a sign that you guys are really

comfortable with each other and things are good. Or it could be a sign that you've misread the

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