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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Purity Culture, Shame, & the Grace of God, #608

Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Authentic Intimacy®

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 25 May 2026

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

This week, Dannah Gresh shares the personal story behind And the Bride Wore White—one of a few books that launched conversations about purity, shame, grace, and redemption for an entire generation of Christian young people. Together, Juli and Dannah reflect on the wounds many women carry around sexuality, the beauty of God's forgiveness, and why purity was never meant to be about perfection. 

Guest: Dannah Gresh

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Thanks for joining me for Job with Julie. I am Julie Slattery. This podcast is an outreach of authentic intimacy.

0:09.0

It's a ministry dedicated to helping you make sense of God and sexuality.

0:13.6

This week I'm sitting down with a good longtime friend. She's an author, speaker. She and I actually

0:20.1

co-wrote the book pulling back the shades.

0:23.3

Of course, I'm talking about Dana Gresh. And we're going to be talking about the updated

0:27.6

edition of her book that was called And the Bride War White. In this conversation, we're

0:33.7

going to go back to the original release from the late 1990s and understand what the

0:39.8

cultural moment was that shaped her original writing of this book. And we'll talk about some

0:45.4

of the backlash that she's experienced around messages of sexual purity and how conversations

0:52.0

about sexuality, purity and discipleship have really shifted over the

0:56.2

past few decades.

0:58.0

Dana's going to share why she felt the need to rewrite this book.

1:02.1

And her heart is really to see teen girls and young women disciple with wisdom and grace

1:07.8

in the area of sexual integrity.

1:10.3

We also talk about what it looks like

1:12.6

practically to hold faithful biblical convictions while growing in humility, listening carefully

1:19.1

and learning from the voices who have been heard. This new version of Dana's book,

1:24.4

which is a complete rewrite, is coming out next week, and we'll drop a link to that in our show notes.

1:29.4

For now, let's head to the coffee shop for my conversation with my friend, Dana Gresh.

1:38.5

Dana Gresh.

1:40.3

Welcome back to Java with Julie.

1:42.4

I love Java with Julie.

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