You're on the Bertia. The possibility to offend her brother or her future sister-in-law was pretty high here.

Samantha was telling us that the bridesmaid dress that she's supposed to wear in her

brother's wedding.

She wasn't comfortable in it.

Two revealing, too sexy and they're getting married in a church.

It didn't fit right.

So she was thinking, who do I talk to about this?

Do I talk to my brother?

Do I talk to his future wife about it?

And I was feeling like this was going to be explosive because you were going to say that your

taste isn't appropriate for a church and a woman is going to take offense to that.

You felt like you were making a moral judgment by objecting to this dress.

I thought that's how it would be received.

Yes.

And that's very likely it could be it could be received that way.

So Samantha we gave her some options going into the weekend.

Yeah, if you don't talk to your brother or your future sister-in-law,

we could do a texting tutor with you.

But there has been an update from over the weekend.

Hey Samantha, good morning. Hi Samantha good morning. Did I get all that right? Yeah you

did yeah that that was perfect. Okay so we were set to do a texting tutor

with you maybe hit your brother up maybe help you choose the words with

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