The Bert show.

Her brother is dating one of her fiance's ex-girlfriends and wants to bring her to the wedding

and she was going to sit down with the brother and say, ah, what are you doing?

You remember this?

I do, so she's angry about it because yes, she's getting married and her brother just recently told her that he's dating one of her fiance's ex-girlfriends and he wants to bring her as his plus one, which she does not want anyone at her wedding who has

romantic history with either herself or her fiance, which is understandable.

But the brother is doubling down saying, well, you're inviting one of his ex-girlfriends to the wedding so he

feels like it's the same thing he has to be there with an ex why can't she be there

with one of her ex her fiance's exes but obviously she feels like it's very different having someone there as romantic history to

yourself at your own wedding than just having someone there at someone else's wedding.

So she was having this back and forth with her brother and wasn't exactly sure how she should handle it.

All right, so over the weekend what happened here's our update email.

So I talked to my brother about the whole situation with him wanting to bring his

new girlfriend to the wedding didn't exactly go

smoothly. He got all worked up and said he won't come to the wedding if she's not

invited. He accused me of being traumatic and making things difficult. He must have gone directly to my

parents because I got a call from my mom an hour later and now they're taking his side.

She told me to just be easy and let my brother bring whoever he wants.

She made it clear that the day isn't just about me, but that weddings are a day for the entire

family to celebrate to enjoy themselves. Okay let's chew on that for a second.

Is that how your guys' family's viewed your wedding also? It's just like a, it's also a party for the families or

what is it about just the bride and the group? I mean you wouldn't be there if it wasn't for your

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