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Do You F*cking Mind?

PT 2. HEADNOISE: Navigating awkward dynamics when your spouses (girl) friend crosses the line & MORE. Part 2

Do You F*cking Mind?

Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.9914 Ratings

🗓️ 5 December 2024

⏱️ 30 minutes

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0:00.0

Hello, beautiful beans. Welcome to part two of the head noise episode. These are the email

0:14.7

questions that people have sent in. As usual, loving it so much, thriving, thriving, thriving,

0:21.6

thriving every time I get all these emails from you guys.

0:25.0

Not that you have problems in your life, that doesn't make me thrive,

0:28.5

but that we can work through them and hopefully come up with some sort of a solution

0:32.0

obsessed.

0:33.1

Okay, let's just get straight into it.

0:34.8

I've got three to answer.

0:36.4

They're all fabulous questions.

0:39.1

Hi, Alexis. Thank you so much for all of your guidance and support. I find something useful in every

0:43.9

single podcast. Thank you. One issue I'm having is with a friend in inverted commas of my husband.

0:50.8

They went to high school and college together, even had a one-night stand 15 years ago.

0:56.0

She has been married for 12ish years now to one of my husband's best friends. Since I met her

1:00.8

five years ago, she has made it apparent that she feels she has a claim over my husband,

1:05.6

frequently reminds me how many memories she and him share and generally has attention-seeking

1:10.6

behaviour towards him.

1:12.0

She's even gone so far as to lay across his lap when we're all hanging out together,

1:16.7

which I made clear was not okay. My husband does not care to hang out with her, but wants to

1:21.5

maintain his friendship with her husband. I am uncomfortable every time we hang out, but I don't want to ask him to eliminate that friendship

1:29.7

and cut ties completely. I have zero concerns about my husband being unfaithful, but I can't

1:34.8

continue to endure her bad behavior. Suggestions for how I address it. Thank you, Leah. That is so

1:41.4

fucking annoying. That is so fucking annoying, especially when it's like a blatant

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