Today we're talking about sex, which is funny because I am not known as a super sexual person, especially on the internet.

I don't necessarily have a screaming sexual energy in my opinion, which is something I've actually always

kind of been self-conscious about and kind of bummed about. I've always been like,

why don't I have like a sexy vibe? Like why? Like please like praying to just whatever is up there come on give me a sexy vibe.

It's not something I'm known for. I'm also somebody who, to TMI and share too much information with you,

I'm somebody who could not have a more cookie cutter sort of sexual experience in the sense that

number one I'm a monogamous dater I'm also somebody who doesn't love casual sex just does not work for me.

It is not my thing. I don't like it. I've never experimented in any like polyamorous open relationships so that's a

completely like unknown world to me and then to really get down to it and to

get really technical with it, sexually, I'm pretty, I guess you could say, vanilla.

I'm very vanilla with sex.

However, being somebody who is not super sexual. But alas, okay, still a

sexual person to an extent. I am excited to be talking to a sex

expert today who's not just an expert in like sex like how the orgasm works

blah blah blah that's exciting, I guess.

But we're talking to an expert that understands fetishes,

that understands kinks.

And I'm very excited because there's a lot that I don't know and you know maybe I have a fetish in me

That I don't know about and this is when my parents should turn off the episode definitely my grandparents basically all family but

any who today we're gonna be talking to Lori Beth Bisbee she is a gender

sex in relationship diversity therapist.

She's also a sex and intimacy coach

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