Problematic Issues of Porn (w/ Erika Lust)
Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Headgum & Nicole Byer
4.9 • 16K Ratings
🗓️ 30 August 2019
⏱️ 67 minutes
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Summary
"I would like to see films where women's pleasure is also in focus. Where it's important to the story that she is also having a good time."
Erotic film director, screenwriter, and producer Erika Lust discusses the science behind what arouses us, the problematic issue behind "teen porn", porn's worst stereotypes, and her favorite porn bloopers. Plus, Nicole shares her ultimate porn fantasy.
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| 0:00.0 | Why won't you date me? |
| 0:10.0 | Why won't you date me? |
| 0:12.0 | Why won't you date me? |
| 0:14.0 | Please, tell me why. |
| 0:18.0 | Oh, baby, welcome to another episode of Why won't you date me? |
| 0:27.0 | A podcast for me, Nicole Byer, tries to figure out how I'm still single, even though you could leave a jar of mayonnaise on your bedside table and eat out of it every night. |
| 0:45.0 | And then after your fingers are all mannays up, you can finger me. |
| 0:50.0 | Oh, no. |
| 0:53.0 | Erica, I try to come up with a new dumb reason every week and I'm running so well at them. |
| 0:59.0 | They're really hard to think of because after you said, I don't know, you said it 20 times. |
| 1:05.0 | It's just gets to be insane. |
| 1:08.0 | So anyway, okay, my guest today, I'm very excited. |
| 1:11.0 | Okay, her name is Erica Lust and she is an acclaimed indie adult filmmaker who creates sex positive, indie adult cinema, |
| 1:20.0 | that portrays sexuality intelligent, no, sexually intelligent narratives. |
| 1:24.0 | You know what, reading is sometimes very hard. |
| 1:27.0 | You also have a TED Talk called It's Time for Porn to Change. |
| 1:31.0 | And you have a website called X Confessions. |
| 1:34.0 | It's the first crowdsource, erotic film series, and history. |
| 1:37.0 | That's fun. |
| 1:39.0 | That's lots of fun. |
| 1:41.0 | It's an amazing project actually. |
| 1:44.0 | I love that it's crowdsource. |
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