Prioritizing You In The Mess
The R Spot with Iyanla
Shondaland Audio and iHeartPodcasts
4.9 • 908 Ratings
🗓️ 9 August 2023
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
Iyanla’s latest caller has a lot going on – she’s currently pregnant and asked her husband for a divorce, but on top of that, she’s also lost her dream job and has been struggling financially. But the problem really comes to the forefront when Iyanla askes her… “What do you want?” This week on The R Spot, Iyanla deep dives into admitting when you’ve made a mess of things, and her secret solution toward getting back onto the right path.
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This episode is a rebroadcast of Episode 35.
Executive Producers: Sandie Bailey, Alex Alcheh, Lauren Hohman, Tyler Klang & Gabrielle Collins
Producer & Editor: Vince Dajani
Associate Producer: Akiya McKnight
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. |
| 0:05.5 | I am Yandler, your host for this journey. |
| 0:08.5 | I was a hopeless loveaholic, but just could not get my love to work. |
| 0:15.4 | Then after a series of heartbreaks and deep heartache, I finally got clear about what love is and what it is not. |
| 0:25.0 | I want to share some of what I've learned about loverholism. |
| 0:31.1 | Welcome to the R Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with IHeart Radio. |
| 0:37.5 | You know, sometimes we have a mess in our life, and we make it more difficult than it needs to be. |
| 0:55.8 | We look everywhere. |
| 0:57.1 | We're trying to find a solution. |
| 0:58.9 | And in a worst case scenario, we get busy trying to fix the pieces of the mess that we think are most important. |
| 1:07.5 | I have a simple solution for a mess that I'm going to tell you about later. It's called |
| 1:12.5 | a 2 a.m. walk. But in the meantime, the question I want us to look at is, how do you fix a mess? |
| 1:20.7 | How do you fix a mess? Because sometimes we find ourselves in a mess, a mess of our own making, a mess that we have |
| 1:33.4 | difficulty owning, a mess that we have difficulty looking at. |
| 1:38.0 | We make ourselves busy dealing with this piece or that piece when the truth is we are |
| 1:43.5 | a mess. |
| 1:46.9 | And if you're a mess, you will not be able to clean up a mess. Because when there's a mess in your life, when there's a mess in your |
| 1:53.5 | relationship, when there's a mess in your mind, when there's a mess in your heart, you got to |
| 1:59.6 | prioritize. I want to talk to my guests about that today. |
| 2:04.2 | How to prioritize your mess. Welcome, beloved. Thank you for your time today. Thank you for calling |
| 2:14.9 | the R spot. Now, what is your relationship issue, challenge, |
| 2:19.0 | dilemma that we're going to chew on together today? Hi, Yamma, thank you for taking my call. |
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