I amma. I've been very open about the fact that I was not always good and making my

relationships work. I have been divorced three times twice from the same person. In other words, I have seen a lot and failed a lot in my relationships.

So I am here to share with you what I learned along the way because I did take copious notes.

Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I Heart Radio. You know sometimes as women I think that we think that men don't have feelings and they don't have hearts. Now sometimes it's because of the way that they behave and sometimes it's because of the stories we make up about them.

I also think that sometimes men don't know how to say what they feel,

and as women, we don't know how to hear it. Sometimes I think we're so busy trying to talk them out of what they're thinking

that we don't give honor to their feeling.

I put a call out and I said I wanted to talk to man because I

know the one place a man is willing to be vulnerable and share his heart is when it comes to dealing with his children.

And sometimes as mothers and women, we don't honor and respect a man's heart as a father.

So my hope is that in listening to my next caller, my guess for today,

that women will rethink what they think about how men feel.

Take a listen.

Greetings beloved. Welcome to the R spot.

Wow, how are you, man?

I'm blessed. How are you? I'm in awe right now because you're one of my favorite people and I'm just in shock right now, so this is amazing.

Well, take a breath. I'm trying. Thank you for calling. I'm always amazed and encouraged by the amount of courage it takes for someone

to be so vulnerable to call and talk to basically a stranger.

So you're in awe with me, I'm in all with you,

so we're just awestruck how about that and awesome.

That was good man sounds good.

So how can I support you today let's talk about your relationship challenge issue dilemma

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