POV You're Hot, but Lonely...How Come?

POV You're My Therapist

Divine Philemond

Personal Journals, Society & Culture

4.8 • 610 Ratings

🗓️ 18 February 2023

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Why are so many hot, sexy, girls lonely?

The Hot, Lonely Girl in short is a lone wolf. She can't maintain a friend group to save her life. She has a hard time finding people to date, or is not interest in the ones that want to date her, thus leaving her without an "other". While all her friends are in long term relationships, getting married and having babies, the HLG seems to be falling the wayside. The HLG might even be content in singledom.

The HLG paradox is not exclusive to women or relationships either. It is the person, who decided at 25 to take a chance on themselves and start their own business, while their friends have been on a set path since high school. The HLG is anyone taking the harder, longer, lonelier path--the path, that as hard as they may try--no one, except someone on a similar path, understands.

This episode is about that. It's about having to be your own support system and your biggest advocate. It's about being there for yourself. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pov-youre-my-therapist/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hello. Welcome to PioV you're my therapist, the podcast where I event you listen and you
0:08.0	don't get paid, babe. I'm wearing. We're back. We're back in the old room because I truly
0:18.9	thought that I would have been moved by now, you know, that I'd be in my new digs.
0:24.8	I'd be setting up, probably taking a break from the podcast for a little while just to, you know, get myself together.
0:33.2	Just to, you know, like, you know, get a nice breather and whatnot.
0:42.6	Clearly, that's not what's happened.
0:45.7	So I was like, you know what?
0:49.0	I'm moving back upstairs.
0:51.4	I'm moving back upstairs.
0:53.3	And now, honestly, what I've really thought about
0:55.6	is ordering a second microphone to have in my bedroom so I can just kind of like record whenever I
1:01.2	feel like it and then, you know, moving back upstairs or whatever. So anyways, I really kind of
1:07.1	wanted the vibe for today. I should let candles and stuff, but I really wanted the vibe for
1:11.8	today to be like really cozy, to be really intimate, because I want to talk to you today about
1:19.0	loneliness. I really, really do. But I have my silk jammies on. Shout out, Savage X. Fenty. I picked non-spons, okay? But I picked this up at their opening. They had a little opening for the girls in Atlanta. So I went and I picked this up. And oh, my God, it's so nice. It's so, ooh, I feel rich. I feel luxurious. You know what I'm saying? Like, I really feel
1:46.9	like sexy. But also, I feel, I feel soft. I feel vulnerable. And, um, and I don't know if you ever
1:54.7	have those moments where you're kind of going through life and it's not deja vu, but you have a moment that kind of feels like,
2:03.5	I've had this feeling before. It's like the very first day that you feel that spring is coming,
2:10.8	or it's like one of those random days towards the end of the end of winter, where the sun just kind of hits you just right, and you
2:20.4	smell all of these smells. And something in particular just takes you back to a time and a place.
2:28.2	And you really, like, it's a really nice feeling. And I felt that feeling today.
2:46.3	And what that feeling reminded me of was the times when I was younger, when I was so hopeful about the next step of my life.
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