POV You Acknowledge The Subtle Cruelty Of Ghosting

POV You're My Therapist

Divine Philemond

Personal Journals, Society & Culture

4.8 • 610 Ratings

🗓️ 24 March 2023

⏱️ 56 minutes

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The girl who low-key went viral for saying she believes in ghosting and in-fact advocates for it is now reconsidering having such a staunch stance on the matter. Because simply put, she grew up, and sometimes whether she likes it or not she can be wrong. Also, she watched Banshee’s of Inisherin, which raised some interesting points, so obvi she had thoughts.

In this week's episode, Divine discusses Ghosting! From the POV of the ghosted. She talks about the loneliness and pain that comes with being abruptly abandoned and also discusses why it happens as well as how to heal from being ghosted.

She discusses the delicate balance of self-love, selflessness, and selfishness. Divine also talks about the dating landscape and how it felt to experience it in a different place where to her surprise she wasn’t the problem! Love that for her.

This episode is full of fun girl talk and giggles, so get comfy, grab a lil snack and tune in!

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0:00.0	Hi guys. Welcome to POVMI and my therapist, the podcast where I invite you listen and you do not get paid.
0:08.2	I know we haven't been here in a while, but whatever, we live, we move, we don't talk about it.
0:14.1	I'm a wee bit warm today. I have the window open. I feel like when I was outside, like coming in here,
0:20.5	I got sprayed by like something itchy. So like I feel like when I was outside, like coming in here, I got sprayed by like
0:21.6	something itchy. So like I feel like I have like tiny little little itches all over me.
0:27.6	But I'm actually really excited about today's episode just because, you know, a lot to happen.
0:33.6	And I feel like we haven't had like an emotion in a while you know um so yeah so a lot's
0:41.4	happened and like and I've been thinking about a lot so last week um on one of my little uh trips back
0:49.6	home I sat there and I finally watched the banshees of Inner Sheeran and I watched it on HBO Max.
0:57.0	Shout out HBO Max. You know, I love me my HBO Max. And whoever's account I'm using, thank you so much.
1:04.0	It was, my cousin gave me that login and then very quickly after logging on, I was like, I've never heard of any of these people. I don't even know if this is your account. But I think it's like his friend's account. So everything's fine. If I'm committing a crime, no, I'm not. HBO, sponsor me. So I watched The Banshees of Innershearin. And The Banshees of Innersarin is this movie about friendship.
1:28.9	And it took a turn that I did not really expect it to.
1:32.1	So I'm going to read you the, I'm going to read you the synopsis.
1:37.8	And then we're going to get into why I'm talking about this.
1:40.5	So this is the synopsis according to Wikipedia.
1:44.3	On a remote island off the coast of Ireland, Parik is devastated when his buddy column
1:50.7	suddenly puts an end to their lifelong friendship.
1:54.1	With the help from his sister and a troubled young islander, Parik sets out to repair the
1:59.4	damage relationship by any means necessary.
2:02.7	However, as Colum's Resolve strengthens, he soon delivers an ultimatum that leads to shocking consequences.
2:12.5	Yeah, so I watched it, and I'm not going to lie, the consequences were shocking.
2:19.1	I'm going to spoil a little bit here. So feel free to skip a little bit ahead.
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