Post Menopause And I Can’t Orgasm #753

Sexy Marriage Radio

Dr Corey and Pam Allan

Christianity, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Religion & Spirituality

4.6 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 5 November 2025

⏱️ 25 minutes

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the need to retune both sexual and marital systems to adapt to changing dynamics. Particularly when menopause happens. We want to encourage a focus on personal growth and understanding within the relationship, rather than solely on physical outcomes. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended Version … In the XTD content, we explore more the idea of Exploration Nights and Connection Nights for couples looking to deepen their capacities emotionally and sexually. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy

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0:00.0	Welcome back to another episode of sexy marriage radio alongside my wife, Pam.
0:06.1	Always good to be.
0:07.0	This is one of those episodes that's going to be fun, Pam, because this is an email that came in from a wife who is post-menopause.
0:15.4	And it has impacted their sex life.
0:20.1	No surprise there.
0:21.2	Kind of hits home in some ways.
0:24.7	No surprise there.
0:25.8	That is what happens as we age.
0:28.4	So I'm just going to jump right in.
0:30.4	This is from a wife.
0:32.0	I've been in post menopause for two years now and I've worked closely with health
0:35.7	professionals to monitor my hormone replacement
0:38.5	therapy like estrogen testosterone and progesterone. I'm happily married and used to have orgasms
0:44.3	three out of the four times of having sex and we were both both very happy with our sex life.
0:50.3	Since menopause, I'm struggling greatly to have orgasms, and I don't know if it's the HRT.
0:56.3	The other factor in this is my libido is now through the roof.
1:01.2	I've become the spouse with a higher demand, and this in turn has probably put too much stress on my husband sexually.
1:07.5	We do also have lots of stress with a son that's addicted to marijuana, so lots of stress for the
1:13.3	last two and a half years. My libido is crazier than ever, and I can't figure out if it's because
1:18.3	I can't have as much sex with our stress, or because my orgasms are out of reach, or if it's the
1:25.0	artificial HRT may can be crazy.
1:31.0	I've been told not to focus on the orgasm, and that works once in a while,
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