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The Richard Nicholls Mental Health Podcast

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The Richard Nicholls Mental Health Podcast

Richard Nicholls

Counseling, Happiness, Anxiety, Health & Fitness, Counselling, Depression, Psychology, Mental Health, Psychotherapy, Alternative Health, Self Help, Wellbeing

4.7685 Ratings

🗓️ 22 August 2025

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Send us a text The idea of our thoughts influencing our emotions, which influence our behaviour is regularly talked about in therapy. But often misses out the important bit in-between. Emotions and behaviour, which is our world view, our beliefs. Support the show Join our Evolve to Thrive 6 month programme https://therapynatters.com Join the Patreon community https://www.patreon.com/richardnicholls Social Media Links Bluesky https://bsky.app/profile/richardnicholls.net Threads htt...

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0:00.0

Another week, another bonus episode. And this week I want to talk about the importance of positive thinking,

0:07.5

because it's no secret that it's better to spend more time thinking about the things that you do want to see happen, rather than the things that you don't.

0:17.3

But it bears repeating, especially when it comes to productivity. So, keep in mind the goals

0:26.4

you have and the steps you want to take and ask yourself from time to time, what do you want to see

0:34.2

done this week? Is there something you're putting off? Well, let's see how far through

0:41.4

it you can get this week, even if it's just a few steps of it, because those big goals can be

0:48.0

really overwhelming, so it's important to break them down. Have you ever heard of Stu Mittleman?

0:58.2

He won the world hyperdistance record for running a thousand miles. Took him nearly 12 days. When he was interviewed by a journalist afterwards,

1:06.1

he was asked how he was able to possibly prepare to run a thousand miles.

1:12.7

And do you know what he said?

1:14.3

He said, I could never have prepared myself for running a thousand miles.

1:20.5

I simply ran one mile a thousand times.

1:24.3

And that's good advice because our goals have to be realistic, otherwise we lose faith in

1:29.8

ourselves. When a weight loss client comes to therapy, they might say that their goal is to lose

1:38.1

three stone and two dress sizes. But until we break it down into losing one pound or two inches at a time, they don't

1:46.7

believe that they could do it. So they go straight back to the box of Maltese's. Our belief in

1:51.6

ourselves, our confidence that we can reach our goal is absolutely vital. Because our emotions,

1:59.1

our feelings, they run our lives to a degree.

2:03.7

They nudges along.

2:05.5

They urge us to behave in certain ways.

2:09.1

Fight or flight, run and hide.

2:11.1

And the meaning behind the feelings is going to be different for everybody.

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