Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth many years ago and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life

lessons and revelations. I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

So Sam Louie and I go way back. Here's what's interesting about Sam. So I grew up in an all white neighborhood. Sam and I roughly the same age. Sam grew up in a predominantly all black neighborhood. I grew up skateboarding.

Sand group grew up playing basketball. We both loved hip hop and the way that I met Sam was I was at church and I didn't have many friends and this guy

You know we started talking. He's like I got to introduce you to my friend Sam he's also

Asian he's also going through a divorce and he's also studying to be a therapist and I

remember that's why he brought me to your house and that's how we met. And then from there, I remember the moment that Sam asked me for my phone number and it was kind of a

weird moment because it's kind of strange for guys to because Sam and I are older

and you know we we were kind of we have our one foot into kind of like you know

The old generation were asking a man for a phone number might be kind of weird.

And I remember, it was kind of forced.

It was like, it's almost like, you almost demanded it.

It was almost like, you know, if you get nervous instead of being polite

asking I think you threw me your phone and you were like give me your phone number and I was

like oh shit and from then on we moved in together, became friends, and we went through divorce recovery together as we were

working on hours toward licensure.

And here's what's interesting,

and you can see this,

you can see this literally on YouTube.

Now if you look at Sam,

he became the shirt and tie guy, right,

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