For the first time in my life, I made the decision to abstain. I would hear other people doing it. And I would say that looks good. But I don't know if I really want to do that, right? I don't even know if you really have to do that. I love the fact that he has the wherewithal to know that had he gotten married before, he would have been married, but he wasn't going to be faithful. I didn't say all that. I didn't say that I wasn't going to be faithful.

I think I don't know.

I'll just say that I don't know.

What you put in perspective?

How often are you going out of 365 days in the year?

I go on a trip about one to three times a month.

So how does that work in balance in a relationship? They have to take a year. I go on a shirt about one to three times a month. So how does that work in balance

in a relationship? They have to take a liking to travel. Like it's just not going to work if they don't

like to travel. Introduce people that may not know who you are or what you do and they say, how does he do

traveling? How does he get paid? How does that even work? Explain that. The premise of my platform is telling

untold stories around the world. Something that I was already doing for free. Yes. I'm getting

paid for it. Once I got that check, I said, I need to double down on this. Yes. So you fulfill

career. Are you fulfilled from a relationship standpoint? You know, relationships wasn't easy for me,

but I was always a relationship type of person. Have you always been marriage-minded? Well, let me ask you, I don't even want to assume, are you marriage-minded? I am for sure. Have you always been like that? I was always marriage-minded, but I wasn't always intentionally dating for marriage, if that makes sense. No, break it down. I knew I always wanted to be married,. But I really didn't know how to date to marry. And I wasn't around many people that were doing it. You went through a great journey in your faith. It's something about a break of that bringing close to the guy. What's the definition of this, Sandy? Doing the same thing over and over again. If my goals to really eventually be gone married, I got to do something different.

So you're 38 in an ideal world.

When would you be married?

What started as a search for understanding became a journey of transformation.

Every letter that I wrote led me to this day, the day I got married.

November the 22nd, 2025, dear, my forever.

Forever is a long time.

That's how long I love you.

Those lyrics echo through every fiber of my soul at the very thought of you.

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