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Owning It: The Anxiety Podcast

OWNING IT: People pleasing and how to say no with author Sarah Knight

Owning It: The Anxiety Podcast

Caroline Foran

Overwhelm, Education, Health & Fitness, Panic Attack, Caroline Foran, Stress, Anxiety

4.4654 Ratings

🗓️ 9 December 2019

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

People pleasing is a big driver of anxiety. For this episode of Owning It I am thrilled to be joined by New York Times Bestselling author Sarah Knight. She wrote the Lifechanging Magic of Not Giving A Fuck and has gone on to write a whole series of No Fucks Given Guides, the latest of which is Fuck No: How To Stop Saying Yes When You Can't, You Shouldn't Or You Just Don't Want To. Sarah shares her own inspiring story of anxiety with me, how life has changed since her days as a book editor in Manhattan (she now lives in the Dominican Republic) and how she's learned the art of suiting herself and ultimately benefitting her wellbeing and her anxiety. Fuck No is available in the UK and Ireland from December 12th, 2019.


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0:00.0

Thank you for listening to owning it. If you would like to support the series, the best thing you can do is just tell a friend or better yet share it on social media. If you really, really want to support, you can subscribe to me on Substack where I write a weekly column. Listeners of the pod get a 20% discount forever at carolinephorun.substack.com. Thank you.

0:24.0

Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to owning it the anxiety podcast with me, Caroline

0:29.0

Foreign. This week on the series, I'm so thrilled to introduce you to author Sarah Knight.

0:34.4

She's a New York Times bestseller, she's the author of the No Fooks Given

0:37.6

guides. There's five books in the series so far and her latest book is called Fuck No. It is

0:42.8

such an unbelievable read. I've had the chance to read it now since I spoke with Sarah and it is an

0:47.9

absolute must for the people pleasers out there. I know it's certainly something that I need in my life

0:52.6

and I think that we can safely

0:54.3

assume that people pleasing and the desire we have to try and suit ourselves without worrying

0:59.5

about what people will think about us and how to say no.

1:01.6

All of these things are big drivers of anxiety for people in their day to day lives.

1:05.4

So Sarah has just such a brilliant way of explaining how to approach this.

1:10.1

Everything she says is incredibly snackable

1:11.3

as it has been through all of the books that she's written. And I'm particularly indebted to Sarah

1:16.9

because a couple of years ago or the year before last, she kindly offered to write a blurb for my book

1:22.1

for owning it when it came out in America. And it was called Own It Over There and she wrote a

1:26.1

glowing review of it which graces the front cover of all the American editions of the book and to have someone of her caliber and her expertise I mean she edited fucking gone girl so to have someone like her and all the work that she's gone on to achieve herself and validate my work was just incredibly inspiring and it really made me feel like, you know,

1:45.7

maybe my books were okay. And of course, her book, Fuck Now is out on December 12th in Ireland and

1:51.4

you'll get it everywhere online. And if you haven't read any of her former books, I recommend

1:57.0

going back to the first one, which is the life-changing magic of not giving a fuck. And I think

2:00.5

you'll really enjoy it. It was so refreshing. It was 20, 15 minute came out,

2:04.1

and it was like the first book of its kind, and has been a huge inspiration for me and the

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