Own the First 10 Seconds: How to Shape Perception Before You Speak
Negotiate Anything
American Negotiation Institute
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🗓️ 2 May 2026
⏱️ 56 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | For the person listening today, I really want to hammer this home. When you talk about presence, |
| 0:05.6 | like, first of all, what does this mean? And second of all, what changes in their life if they're |
| 0:12.4 | able to master this? You know, presence is how people are experiencing us. So I'll clarify, too, this is virtual and in person. You know, |
| 0:24.3 | like a lot of things in person, there's much more power. There's all these different nuances of how |
| 0:28.6 | we're experiencing each other. And experiencing one another means how we are interacting, |
| 0:33.8 | sharing space with one another. And so presence does include things like communication and like a lot of |
| 0:41.8 | other disciplines. You know, many people know sort of the arena of like executive presence, which is |
| 0:50.2 | exactly that. I'm parallel to executive presence, but executive presence deals with |
| 0:54.5 | communication and a lot of different facets. And the cross section that I work on, which is kind of |
| 1:00.2 | the true starting line of the broader beast that is our presence, is our physical presence. |
| 1:07.0 | So our appearance, how are we showcasing who we are, our attributes through our style, |
| 1:15.5 | through our physicality? So ultimately, our presence is the opportunity we take for people to |
| 1:25.4 | experience our intentions and our appearance. |
| 1:29.6 | Incredible. I love the simple synthesis here, how people are experiencing us. Because when we think about negotiation and communication at large, a lot of times we are focusing exclusively on the semantics. What are you saying and what is the impact of those words? |
| 1:46.1 | But we fail to really understand just how significant our non-verbals are. And so that's not just what we are, like our body language. A lot of times we just focus on the body language. But we don't talk about our style, the physicality, |
| 2:01.4 | like you said as well, our background. And listeners, if you have not checked out our YouTube page, |
| 2:06.5 | this will be a great one to check out because Evan has an incredible presence. Everything is done |
| 2:11.1 | with intention. And that's something that made you stand out when we met in Nashville for the |
| 2:16.8 | Speaker's Conference conference too. |
| 2:19.3 | Hey, I'm Kwame Christian, and you are about to step into the world of Negotiate Anything, |
| 2:24.5 | the number one negotiation podcast in the world where we teach you how to make difficult |
| 2:29.2 | conversations easier while getting more of what you want in the process. Each episode is packed with practical |
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