So my wife and I sit down last night as a matter of fact and I'm not intending to but get into hard marriage moments which lead to a really frank conversation about our way, and particularly how deeply different they are.

By confession, what surfaced was the tension of two people that fundamentally

operate in different ways. My wife being one who is beautifully present in here in this moment,

engaged and empathetic, but it gives little energy to the what's coming down the road and myself who spends a lot of energy thinking of the long term with a

Visionary term with a visionary mindset with a strategic thinking but has to work very

hard to be in this present moment in and of themselves I don't believe either one is bad and there are opportunities

for love but the truth is we both need to mature and we both need to be honest with those different ways have

deep impact and implications upon each other and in our family system.

Friends, welcome back to the Ransom Hart podcast.

That was Morgan.

John here, Alan Arnold, in part two of a series on our way, a conversation about just kind of that fundamental approach to life that permeates just about everything we do and is really worth looking at

anyone who wants to take discipleship to Christ seriously needs to get this on to the table.

And so, Morgan, of all the things in your marriage that have been an open door for warfare,

the collision of ways is probably up there in the top three.

Oh, it's huge. It's huge because we both can be motivated by love and trying to care and trying to do good things, but it comes across as really being unthoughtful, uncaring, and ultimately you feel like you're not known?

Yes.

And that person feels like they're not known.

Yes.

I have a friend who's experienced a great deal of, well,

I think it would be called relational collapse

in their life.

It's very, very sad.

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