Opt Out of Overcoming
Black Girl Burnout
Kelley Bonner
4.7 • 763 Ratings
🗓️ 28 August 2023
⏱️ 17 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Black Girl Burnout podcast, Kelly here. |
| 0:12.9 | Today I want to start by asking you a question. |
| 0:16.3 | What would your life be like if you had nothing to overcome? |
| 0:23.3 | Now, this isn't my question. I didn't create this all on my own. This is a question a friend was asked when she joined up with like a program |
| 0:30.1 | that really, she said, really helped reset her whole life and put her on a trajectory to joy and |
| 0:37.1 | greatness. |
| 0:38.6 | And she said she had this conversation where the person asked her that question, |
| 0:43.2 | what would your life be like if you had nothing to overcome? |
| 0:46.6 | As a therapist, I have asked that question different ways. |
| 0:50.5 | I've asked people, what would your life be like if your greatest challenge or your |
| 0:56.0 | greatest obstacle was removed? It's a powerful question because so much of our time is spent |
| 1:04.0 | thinking about what's in the way, what we have to get through or get over, that we rarely |
| 1:10.7 | leave space to think about all the other |
| 1:13.2 | parts of our life that are sitting there waiting for us to pay attention to. In today's |
| 1:18.6 | episode, we're going to talk about how to opt out of the cycle of overcoming. So much of this |
| 1:26.3 | podcast comes from the conversations I have with black women, |
| 1:30.4 | whether it be my mother or a really good friend or random people I meet in the street. |
| 1:37.7 | I'm learning every day more about the commonality we all have as black women, there are many differences, but there are |
| 1:45.9 | threads of commonality that we all have. And a lot of those commonalities come from this |
| 1:51.5 | historical legacy that we've inherited, this historical set of lies that we internalize |
| 1:59.2 | that teach us, that struggle is our truth, that struggle is our |
| 2:05.8 | legacy. I don't blame us for that because we didn't create it. I just believe in giving you the |
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