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Sad to Savage

Only WHO can judge you???

Sad to Savage

Shelby Sacco

Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Education

5667 Ratings

🗓️ 4 May 2025

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

Hi besties! 

 

In todays episode I wanted to talk about 3 main things. 

  1. Working on self love is the most important thing you will ever work on 

  2. Fearing the judgement of others is nothing but a disservice to yourself 

  3. Judging others is not in your best interest 

This is a topic i revisit all the time with myself that I wanted to talk through with you guys too. I love you all so much, thank you for being here with me. 

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, besties, and welcome back to the Sad to Savage podcast. I'm your host, Shelby Sacco, and I'm so happy that you guys are here today.

0:07.8

In this episode, I want to talk about the fear of judgment from others, how to overcome it, our current position of judging others and how to change it.

0:15.9

And finally, I want to talk about judgment of ourselves.

0:18.9

The title of this episode was going to be, only God can judge you, but I didn't want you

0:23.6

guys to think it was only a religious episode, and I didn't want that to throw anyone off.

0:28.1

But I was thinking about this week's episode and what I wanted to talk about in this conversation.

0:33.2

It's really important to me because I believe that everyone would be in a much better place

0:37.2

mentally if we could work through three big things.

0:41.7

One, not letting the fear of what others think about you hold you back from living the life

0:45.7

that you want to live.

0:47.2

Two, learning and practicing in our daily lives not to cast judgment on others.

0:51.6

And three, when we stop judging others, it has a hand in points one and two.

0:56.7

I think that judging others has a direct connection to our relationship with ourselves,

1:00.6

and by practicing not being mean to other people, that can also go hand in hand with not

1:05.5

being mean to ourselves.

1:07.0

I do want to give a little disclaimer.

1:08.7

Judgment sometimes is needed, and I don't want you guys to walk away from this episode thinking I don't judge others to some degree. I think that there are two very distinct forms of judgment. One, one that can help you and two, one that is just to be hurtful. For example, if you're on a walk and there's a guy that's creeping you out, I'm not saying to go, you know what, I'm not going to judge him, he could be nice, and then forget your instincts.

1:32.5

That's not what I mean. In that scenario, that's something that could keep you safe, it's actually kind of necessary.

1:38.0

But what I'm talking about is say someone from high school is posting on social media pursuing influencing. Judging them in a way that is hurtful would be sending their posts, making fun of them.

1:48.2

That judgment has nothing to do with you, your life, your safety, anything like that.

1:53.5

I just wanted to give a little side note and kind of point that out that while I'm talking

1:57.8

about judgment, it really isn't the way that is harmful and hurtful.

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