Obligation Sex #714
Sexy Marriage Radio
Dr Corey and Pam Allan
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 5 February 2025
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
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On the Regular version …
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we dive into the complex dynamics of obligation sex and mercy sex within marriage.
We explore how these concepts can create harmful patterns for both spouses, leading to resentment, control, and a lack of genuine connection. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and differentiation in understanding one's desires and needs in a sexual relationship.
We hope to encourage listeners to ask themselves critical questions about their roles in these dynamics and to seek deeper connections with their spouses.
Takeaways
Obligation sex can create resentment and frustration in relationships.
Mercy sex is often a way to avoid deeper issues in the marriage.
Self-reflection is crucial in understanding sexual dynamics.
Both partners can feel a lack of genuine connection due to obligation sex.
Differentiation helps partners maintain their sense of self in a relationship.
The higher desire spouse may feel rejected even during sex.
It's important to recognize the harmful patterns in sexual relationships.
Connection is essential for a fulfilling sexual experience.
Asking the right questions can lead to better understanding in marriage.
Enjoy the show!
On the Xtended version …
What can you do when you find yourself in a pattern of obligation sex?
What questions should I ask of myself?
We will answer these questions, and more.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to another episode of sexy marriage radio and in the honor of today's topic that we're covering because we kind of teased this out last week with in the extended content we talked about. |
| 0:13.2 | Is sex an acceptable gift for Christmas? |
| 0:18.1 | Which then leads to kind of this obligation element. |
| 0:21.5 | It could be kind of a mercy sex component, possibly. |
| 0:26.0 | And so that's where we're heading today. |
| 0:28.0 | And so in the honor of the topic, we need to hurry up and just get this thing over with. |
| 0:33.6 | Come on, you see what I'm doing there. |
| 0:35.9 | Sarcasm just sometimes isn't good. |
| 0:38.4 | Oh, sarcasm is always good. |
| 0:40.6 | Well, this is sexy marriage radio. |
| 0:43.4 | Alongside my wife, Pam, we're having straightforward honest conversations about all that goes |
| 0:47.9 | on in married lives, particularly in married sex. |
| 0:51.4 | What we want to do is hear from the nation. |
| 0:54.0 | And if you are a listener, we want your input, your thoughts, your questions, your |
| 0:58.4 | collaborations with us. |
| 0:59.6 | And 214-702-9-565 is the voicemail line we have that allows you to ask questions and |
| 1:07.3 | interact with us. |
| 1:09.0 | You can also email us at Feedback at sexymar radio.com. And every email is answered either on the show |
| 1:16.6 | or via direct email back because we love the collaborations that we've been able to have |
| 1:23.0 | over all these years on the air of sexy marriage radio. and we also hope that people will come join us at |
| 1:29.1 | the getaway in June 2025 so we're in the middle of the early bird rate window for registration |
| 1:35.6 | so June 19th of the 21st you can come join us in downtown Fort Worth it's a fabulous three days |
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