and you recognize that your worth is more valuable than giving fragments out to people,

but to be whole and to have someone serve you whole as well.

We have to take an assessment of ourselves and look at ourselves whole.

It's not anybody else's problem when we walk into a situation knowing what we signed up for.

So this solution is on you.

So this is a very special podcast.

I had a listener reach out to me and wanted to,

wanted me to talk about her situation on the podcast. And of course, this person is anonymous.

And I thought that it was a very great subject to speak on as it goes deep into many situations that men and women find themselves in.

But for this particular woman this young

lady uh she is in her mid 20s and she has found that in her early 20s she didn't want to settle down

and date she wanted to have fun i want to preface this with this as well.

Now, I don't judge anyone and I'm not making judgments on anyone. I am speaking freely and I am

talking from a space of love, light, and understanding. Okay, I said that. All right, here we go. So anyway,

she had her moment where in her

email, she described it as her whole phase, okay? And she was doing her and she did not want to

commit in a relationship with a man. And then in her latter 20s, she has explored the option of being close to a particular someone who has told her that for right now, he just doesn't want to commit.

But they do everything together.

They go on.

And from her definition, they can't really say it's a date, but they do dates.

They hang out at each other's house.

And then on the latter, of course, they are connected through sexual activity.

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