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Seeing Other People

Not Liking Their Friends, Moving For Love and Dating Wins

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 6 April 2026

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

This week we’re catching up on everything from a very full week, including a Boys Like Girls concert, Ilana’s new sewing hobby, and Jake questioning whether anyone actually needs to know how to spell anymore. We get into a listener follow-up about not liking the person you’re dating’s friends and what it actually means if they act differently around them. We also answer a question about moving cities for a relationship and how to know if you’re doing it for the right reasons. Plus, we share your dating wins, from great first dates to big relationship milestones

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0:00.0

Oh, I didn't even notice your shirt.

0:01.8

Oh, yeah.

0:02.0

You like my merch?

0:03.1

Yeah.

0:03.8

Is it really cool? It's so cool. I'm going to walk around like the coolest kid in New York City in my boys like girls' merch. So funny. I will say, I debated the whole time. Of buying merch or not? Of buying merch or not. And I was like, in this moment, I know that I want the merch I worry though is this

0:24.4

going to be a time where like I get the merch and I never wear it again after this night it's possible

0:29.7

but I asked somebody else is like is it comfortable or does it feel like a canvas and they were like

0:35.9

it's medium comfortable.

0:42.7

And I really like it. And I ended up buying it on our way out. And I have no regrets about it.

0:49.8

Okay. When are you going to wear it? I'm wearing it right now. Okay. Is that? I mean, I can wear it whenever. Well, I'm just like if you buy Jonas Brothers merch, we go to a bunch of Jonas Brothers merch,

0:53.9

like you're probably not going back to boys like girls. No, but you wear your Kelsey Ballerini merch. Yeah, it's true. But I would also go back. That's a good shirt, though. I think it's got to be black shirt. Okay, so there was also black, but I liked this design better. And Christina was like, go with the design you like better.

1:13.0

Because like the Kelsey one I like and the Jonas Brothers ones I like are just black.

1:17.1

Yeah.

1:17.8

Very like subtle Jonas Brothers or Kelsey Bowery shirts.

1:22.7

I will say, though, something about the concert that I really respected.

1:26.2

They, the concert, the entire set was their

1:29.0

first two albums front to back. That was it. How many albums do they have? Probably like four,

1:36.1

but like their biggest two albums that have all their hits that their fans love. And I respect them

1:43.1

for not trying to throw in like newer music that people don't really

1:46.3

know and just doing like genuinely what the fans would want.

1:49.4

Yeah.

1:49.8

And I was thinking and I was talking about it during the concert.

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