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Bright Hearth

Not Everyone is Your Friend: Navigating Social Hierarchy

Bright Hearth

Brian Sauvé, Lexy Sauvé

Femininity, Christianity, Parenting, Productive Household, Masculinity, Cooking, Kids & Family, Religion & Spirituality, Patriarchy

4.81.4K Ratings

🗓️ 2 February 2026

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Send us a text! Welcome to Bright Hearth, a podcast devoted to recovering the lost arts of homemaking and the productive Christian household with Brian and Lexy Sauvé. In this episode, Brian and Lexy continue the "On Being Human" series with a look at all of those relationships in your life that aren't friendship, but something else—with special focus on social hierarchy. Lexy's new book, Wisdom on Her Tongue, is back in stock and now shipping! Pick up your copy here. We also have two new boo...

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0:00.0

Join us here in Ogden this June for our annual New Christenum Press conference.

0:04.6

This year's theme, The War for Normal, features a great lineup of speakers, as well as a whole bunch of fun events to make new friends with like-minded saints.

0:13.1

Tickets are more affordable than ever this year, with a brand new family pass covering your entire household for one low price.

0:19.2

Head to newchristinempress.com slash 2026 for tickets and more information.

0:25.2

This episode is brought to you by Resistance Candles,

0:28.5

high-quality wax candles that keep the flame of resistance alive.

0:33.8

Question 126 of the Westminster Larger Catechism asks,

0:39.8

What is the general scope of the Fifth Commandment? In answers, the general scope of the Fifth Commandment is the performance of those

0:45.1

duties which we mutually owe in our several relations as inferiors, superiors, or equals.

0:51.7

In our current series here on Breitth, on being human, we're talking about four

0:56.1

aspects of life where a man or a woman can grow and improve and become more fruitful as a result.

1:01.3

And those four areas are the physical, the spiritual, the social, and the vocational.

1:06.5

Last week, as we continued to work through that third category, the social, we took up the issue of friendship.

1:13.0

But as you heard in that episode, one of the things you have to know about your social life is that not everyone is your friend.

1:20.1

Not everyone is going to be your friend. In fact, there are lots of important relationships that aren't friendship at all, but something else.

1:28.7

There will be acquaintances in your life, people to whom you have some duties, but not the duties

1:33.4

of friends. There are going to be members of your church that you don't necessarily connect with

1:37.9

deeply, but to whom you owe love and honor and service, maybe even by virtue of specific

1:43.8

membership vows that you took as a member

1:45.8

of your local church. Or social hierarchy. Lots of relationships in your life won't be the kind of

1:51.6

buddy-buddy relationship of a peer or a friend. You have to relate, for example, to many

1:57.0

superiors in your life to use the old word bosses pastors fathers mothers people in positions

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