No FRUIT, No RELATIONSHIP | Relationships that Shape Marriage | Part 3
Established Family Podcast
Derek Palizay
5.0 • 585 Ratings
🗓️ 25 March 2026
⏱️ 37 minutes
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Summary
Your marriage is not just being affected by what’s happening inside of it…
…it’s being formed by the people surrounding it.Jesus made it clear—He did not come to bring peace, but division.
Not chaos… but a dividing line between belief and unbelief.And if you don’t understand that division,you will stay connected to relationships that are spiritually unqualified to speak into your covenant.We break down:
- Why Jesus references Book of Micah in the Gospels
- The difference between Old Covenant corruption and New Covenant division
- How moral corruption spreads through relationships into the household
- Why “good people” can still produce bad fruit in your life
- The biblical standard for identifying who should (and should not) have influence in your marriage
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to the Established Family Podcast. Today's episode is brought to you by the Marriage Academy. |
| 0:05.2 | This is our premier 12-week marriage program that will guide you through the stages of marriage. |
| 0:10.9 | As you can see on your screen, there are five that lead towards marital destruction and five that |
| 0:15.9 | lead toward marital growth. Recognizing your condition is stage one of marital growth. Then we will go on in the marriage |
| 0:22.6 | academy to repenting and renouncing our agreements, returning to our marriage and relearning |
| 0:28.0 | what God originally designed for us, then rebuilding our marriage in God's design, reestablishing |
| 0:33.0 | communication, reestablishing covenant relationships, as well as learning about our commission, |
| 0:38.8 | our mandate, and our purpose as a couple, and then we will move on to walking in God's |
| 0:44.0 | design for our marriage. This curriculum has been battle tested in over 1,500 marriages already |
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| 0:55.5 | spouse, an individual, or you can join as a host on behalf of your church or your small group. Simply go |
| 1:01.8 | to Establishuniversity.com and enroll in the marriage academy today. Let's get into today's episode. |
| 1:07.5 | Welcome back, Estabberts family. This is part three of relationships that shape your |
| 1:11.7 | marriage. Today's foundation, I want you to start off by saying today's title, which is no fruit, |
| 1:18.6 | no relationship. And no, I am not talking about your husband or your wife. No fruit, no relationship. |
| 1:25.1 | No fruit, no relationship. So I'm going to read a verse out of context first so that way |
| 1:30.1 | your spirit hears the way in the gravity. And then I'm going to read it in context so that way |
| 1:35.1 | your soul can catch up to the revelation of what I'm reading in scripture. Micah 7.6 says, |
| 1:40.6 | a man's enemies are the members of his own household. A man's enemies are the members of his own |
| 1:48.5 | household. How many of us are in a place where the marriage was the first thing that took the |
| 1:56.1 | weight in the gravity of division inside of our life, whether it was a season of destruction or it was just |
| 2:02.1 | a transition or we lost some things that used to be life-giving, but our marriage took the |
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