When your partner comes to you and is like, I want to open up the marriage, does it bother you at all that the person that they're now and like, you know, with is your best friend?

And how did that happen?

Welcome back to other people's lives. I'm Joe Sanagato. I'm Greg Dybeck.

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Our email is OPL podcast at gmail.com. Today we are speaking to a woman who reached out with the subject line, my wife is dating my best friend. So that's all we got and we are eager to

jump into this one. So we've got the guest on and thank you so much for being on today.

Thank you guys for having me. So you're married. How long have you been with your wife?

So we have been together for a total of 10 years.

We started dating freshman year of college, but we've been married for it was five years last year.

Nice.

Congratulations.

And I guess before we jump into the details of this best friend, is this an open marriage?

Technically, yes.

Technically?

Yes.

So she is the only one that has another partner.

I haven't found interest in anybody else, so it's really just the one so far.

Oh, okay. So you, so how does that work in a marriage? Did, was that something before you guys

got married that you had discussed or did she just come to you one day and say, I want our

relationship to be open? No, so this is very new.

We had talked about it in the past with a different friend, honestly.

And it just never really worked out.

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