My Husband Doesn’t Desire Me #656
Sexy Marriage Radio
Dr Corey and Pam Allan
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 27 December 2023
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Summary
In today's episode, we dive into a listener's question about a lack of desire in her marriage. After working through the Our Intimate Choices worksheet, the husband shared he has no desire or attraction towards his wife.
What does she do now?
It's important she faces the truth of the system and begins recognizing the underlying dynamics. In this process it is imperative she recognizes the importance of separating self-worth from a spouse's opinion and works to make choices that align with her personal values.
Takeaways
Facing the truth and recognizing the underlying issues in a marriage is essential for personal growth and relationship development.
Separating self-worth from a spouse's opinion is crucial for maintaining a healthy sense of self.
Choosing to stay in a marriage while not feeling stuck requires personal growth and self-reflection.
Marriage is a people-growing machine that demands constant self-confrontation and growth.
On the Xtended Version ...
Questions from a recent Q&A session regarding what do you do when attraction has disappeared or never really existed in the first place?
There is a natural ebb and flow of attraction and desire in marriage, but facing this dynamic requires a great deal of self work.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the show. I'm Dr. Corey Allen and as always I'm joined by my wife Pam. |
| 0:08.6 | Always love being here. |
| 0:09.7 | Where on Sex and Marriage Radio we're having regular conversations because we want to try to cultivate |
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| 0:28.5 | and relationship's world's most brilliant minds we have in-depth conversations that explore topics that everybody's going to face. |
| 0:35.3 | And this one today is no different because everybody's, the severity may change as far as across the board but everybody has an |
| 0:44.9 | ebb and flow of what we're talking about today and what we want to try to do is |
| 0:48.8 | help you have conversation starters and actions and ways to frame what's going on so that you can propel life and |
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| 1:26.0 | you know, as the year's winding down, |
| 1:28.0 | this is actually probably the last episode of 2023. |
| 1:32.0 | Okay. So, you know know at the end of this episode we can say hey we'll see everybody |
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