My Friend Hooked Up With Someone’s Boyfriend — AITA?
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 20 October 2025
⏱️ 54 minutes
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Summary
Jake and I are back reflecting on how good it feels to be surrounded by reliable people, the upgrades we’ve made to our apartment, and all the business ideas we’ve had but never acted on. Then we get into the big questions: did dating apps actually make dating easier or just more exhausting? Are you even allowed to date someone who’s allergic to your favorite food? We compare the best and worst parts of being single versus being partnered, and wrap with a wild “Am I The Asshole?” listener scenario involving a self-destructive friend who hooked up with another friend’s boyfriend.
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| 0:00.0 | Whoa. |
| 0:02.1 | That is actually life changing for me and my anxiety. |
| 0:05.7 | We can see the battery level. |
| 0:07.8 | Whoa. |
| 0:08.9 | This is so legit. |
| 0:10.3 | Everything has changed. |
| 0:12.2 | Really cool. |
| 0:13.7 | Welcome back to co-host for life. |
| 0:16.4 | We, Alana, every week I say this, the studio gets a little bit better. |
| 0:19.9 | So right now, I think week one, we had like the chairs and the mics and like a camera |
| 0:24.6 | and some of the lights. |
| 0:26.1 | Now it's like... |
| 0:27.6 | Now we have a table. |
| 0:28.4 | The table's here. |
| 0:30.3 | There is a TV behind like a real camera that shows like how much battery is left. |
| 0:37.4 | We can see ourselves now. We have a left. We can see ourselves now. |
| 0:38.5 | We have a monitor. |
| 0:39.1 | We can see ourselves. We have a monitor. And yeah, it's really freaking cool. Really cool. I'm excited. And Barclay's got a front row C. He's just staring at us. No, he's sleeping. It's very cool. Wow. This is a dream. This is what I wanted for years. Yeah. I know you don't want to do it, but you can sell studio space here for sure. |
| 0:54.8 | You know, Julie and Danielle yesterday were saying when they were, like, I wanted for years. Yeah. I know you don't want to do it, but you can sell studio space here for |
| 0:54.5 | sure. You know, Julie and Danielle yesterday were saying when they were like pricing out the cost of |
| 0:59.9 | studios, they thought about like asking me. And I was like, you guys should have. Like, |
| 1:04.8 | A, I wouldn't charge you. B, I would love to have you over for an hour every week. But then they |
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