“What It’s Really Like to Be Single at 49”
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 16 October 2025
⏱️ 55 minutes
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Summary
I’m joined by Judit, a 49-year-old woman living in Barcelona who has never been married and is opening up about what it’s really like to be single at this stage of life. She shares what she wishes she could tell her 30-year-old self about dating, how the landscape has shifted from pre-apps to today, and how she responds when people ask, “why are you still single?” Whether you’re panicking in your late 20s or feeling the pressure in your 30s, this conversation is a powerful reminder that timelines are made up and there’s more than one path to happiness. Follow Judith on IG @it.is.miranda.time and grab a copy of her book https://natodating.com/
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, my name is Judith. |
| 0:05.0 | I live in Barcelona. |
| 0:07.0 | I'm from Barcelona. |
| 0:08.0 | Although I spent about 10 years in the US at the beginning of the 2000s, mainly in New York. |
| 0:15.0 | I lived in Manhattan for seven and a half years. |
| 0:19.0 | I did some dating there too. I was in my 20s then. I'm 49. |
| 0:25.7 | I'm going to turn 50 at the end of December this year. Happy almost birthday. Yeah. Well, it's a |
| 0:34.4 | scary number. But just 50. 50. It's a an age. It's an exciting number. It's an |
| 0:41.1 | exciting age. I know, I mean, first of all, I'm so excited that you're here. There's so much I |
| 0:45.5 | want to talk to you about. But I know when you reached out to me, you said that, you know, |
| 0:51.8 | being in your 40s, almost 50s, listening to the podcast, it's a good reminder that, you know, being in your 40s, almost 50s, listening to the podcast, it's a good |
| 0:56.1 | reminder that, you know, modern dating is just a mess for everyone. And so I'm really excited to |
| 1:03.2 | hear your perspective as somebody who is dating at the age of 49 of, you know, what dating is |
| 1:10.2 | like for you, what you wish you knew when you were |
| 1:12.7 | dating in your 20s and 30s. And I mean, you have more experience. You have more perspective. You |
| 1:17.6 | know who you are so much more than, you know, me when I was single at 25. So I'm really excited |
| 1:25.8 | to hear your story. Where should we begin? |
| 1:36.1 | Let's begin about three years ago, maybe, because I took a long break from dating for some health issues. |
| 1:45.0 | And about three years ago, I decided that, yes, I wanted to meet somebody and I wanted |
| 1:51.3 | to be part of a couple, if possible. |
| 1:54.5 | And what was the best way to do that? |
| 1:58.3 | Join the exciting wall of the dating apps. |
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