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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

My Child Says No to Everything

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.73.8K Ratings

🗓️ 3 March 2021

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

A parent is stumped that her almost 4-year-old says ‘no’ to everything -- daily transitions like going to or from school, attending a birthday party, even receiving a gift. “Sometimes it is as simple as an emphatic no,” she writes. “And sometimes this increases to more of a tantrum with crying and lots of no, no, no.” While she acknowledges and describes some dramatic upheavals in their household over the past two years, she is confused by her son’s behavior and wonders if Janet has any suggestions how to deal with it. For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ. Paperbacks and e-books are also available at Amazon, Google Play, Barnes & Noble and Apple Books. Janet's exclusive audio series "Sessions" is available for download. This is a collection of recorded one-on-one consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (www.SessionsAudio.com) Our Sponsors:* Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hi, this is Janet Landsbury, welcome to Unruffold.

0:06.3

Today I have a question from a parent that I received in an email about her child who

0:11.8

is four years old and seems very stuck in this resistant negative response.

0:19.3

Keep saying no to everything, even things like presence.

0:23.8

And this parent is frustrated and feels like she's maybe not handling it in the best

0:29.3

way and has asked for some help.

0:34.2

Parenting.

0:37.4

It's all consuming and often exhausting, so it's not always possible to plan, shop and cook

0:42.7

a great meal for your family every night.

0:45.1

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0:46.9

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0:49.9

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1:00.1

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1:02.2

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1:07.1

We've enjoyed a sweet and busy couple of weeks, lots of family, and big festive dinners.

1:12.3

But now that the holidays are winding down, the last thing I want to do is plan more dinners

1:16.3

and shop.

1:17.5

So I love that HelloFresh just shows up at the door with everything I need to put together

1:21.2

a healthy, delicious meal.

1:23.1

Go to HelloFresh.com slash on ruffled21 and use the promo code unruffled21 for 21 free

1:30.0

meals plus free shipping.

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