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The Jesse Mecham Show

Money Destroys Relationships... But It Doesn't Have To

The Jesse Mecham Show

YNAB

Kids & Family, Education

4.71.1K Ratings

🗓️ 5 March 2026

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

Money is the source of many relationship conflicts. It's the number one reason cited for divorce, for one. Money can, frankly, destroy relationships, but it doesn't have to. You can claim ownership of your money, and rid yourself of money stress -- and by extension, reduce your relationships stress too.

 

Jesse urges you to embrace curiosity — curiosity about what you can do and create with your money. You can incorporate a vision exercise into your daily routine with questions as small as "what do we want today to look like?" to big questions like "what do we want our kids' childhood to look like?" After all, discussions about money are really questions about life.

 

The next time you have a discussion with your spouse, partner, or child, be curious about what that person is saying. Sincerely curious. No judgment, just seeking understanding. Figuring out what you want your money to do for you is much easier when you understand you and your family's desires. Then money can become an amplifier of your shared vision, rather than a source of stress, strife, and division.

 

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello, my name is Jessamycom with another episode of the Jessamikam show.

0:17.2

And here I obsess each week about spending purposefully with, with that extremely important

0:24.9

person in your life, where as a kid, perhaps we saw it not work that well as it relates

0:34.9

to money. Perhaps. Maybe you were one of the lucky few where your

0:39.3

parents exhibited fantastic behavior and beliefs around money, but for a lot of us, I mean,

0:46.9

you just look at the numbers. When you have 85% of people living paycheck to paycheck,

0:52.9

by definition, worried about money if that is your

0:55.4

situation, then you translate that into a household where money talks are always, you know,

1:08.1

spicy because there's stress there. And where there's stress, it's hard to kind of be able to take a step back.

1:13.4

It's no surprise that we see money.

1:17.6

I mean, it's cited as the number one reason for divorce, for relationship strain.

1:21.9

I have this quote.

1:23.3

Let me see if I can pull it up.

1:24.8

Roberto and Lena say that the, that's this little testimonial.

1:30.2

And we hear this a lot, not only reduced financial stress, check check, but also deepened our trust and connection, allowing us to enjoy our time together more fully.

1:43.0

So we here at YNab, we will get you and your partner good at money,

1:47.0

so you will never worry about money again.

1:50.3

However, that is not the norm.

1:53.8

We are bucking the trend here,

1:55.9

and we are getting people like Roberto and Lena

1:58.4

to say, not only are we not stressed about our finances,

2:02.4

but it is actually deepening our relationship. So when people sometimes will do the whole,

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