Hello, my name is Jesse Meekam with another episode of the Jesse Meekam show,

and I'm here each week to obsess out loud about you, never worrying about money again.

That is it.

That's what I've given my life to, is helping people to not worry.

And I want you to, well, first maybe take a walk back with me.

Think about what we are like when we worry.

If you want, think of that Snickers commercial

where the person is hangary, as we call it in our house.

And I actually made a, had a little whiteboard for Julie

for Christmas one year and the quote that I put on there

was, I'm sorry for what I said when I was angry and it's a thing so that

Snickers commercial kind of plays into it like the person is just being awful and then

you give them a Snickers and now they're back to their normal selves and my question for

you today is what is your normal self if If you were not worried about money, what you would come out. Or maybe

you would come out. Maybe I shouldn't say what you, but you, you would. If you think about what

worry does, what stress does, you will see it pretty apparently and pretty regularly.

When I'm stressed, I'm shorter with my kids.

I'm a little colder.

When I'm stressed, I'm maybe a little more defensive or accusatory with Julie.

When I'm stressed, I'm maybe a little more judgey, or I feel like I'm being

judged from friends or family. When I'm a little more stressed, work takes on a different

color, and I maybe feel like we have to go faster instead of doing better. So there are

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