Hello everyone and happy Sunday. Here is our highlight moment from the coming episode of Saturn Returns and it's an extraordinary episode if I do say so myself.

I am joined by Shalina Aiana who is the founder of Rising Woman and author of Becoming The One. And in this moment we discuss projections and

fantasies and how a relationship is essentially a co-creation. In terms of Saturn and how this ties in, Saturn is all about

rooting things in reality. It's about taking responsibility and it's about being

grounded and being autonomous.

So this episode feels particularly relevant to those principles of Saturn

and something that we definitely have to learn for ourselves, often the hard way during our Saturn return.

So I hope you enjoy this moment and I cannot wait for you to hear tomorrow's episode.

Yeah, the chapter around projections I found very interesting because I think that's something we all are guilty of doing from time to time when we do project our own pain onto the other person and like you say it can create this anxious

avoidant dance. But what about projecting something when you sort of fantasize about the idea of someone is that also a projection in a way.

Yeah if if you're projecting something that isn't true because you want it to be true

or you're projecting your fantasies you know you're projecting your fantasies, you know, you're still not present with that person.

And we, of course, like you said, we all do that and projections never fully go away, like we are human beings beings we just all project all the time you know based on you know what our beliefs are and what we see in the world and what our conditioning is and what mood we're in that day know, we can be driving down the road and

someone could honk at us and we could immediately get angry and assume,

you know, that they're attacking us or we could, you know, assume that they're honking at somebody else and just

depends on what our conditioning is in that moment right but we do that we

fantasize and we we create I talk about in my book, you know, fantasizing and love chasing and creating situationships

where we are imagining that this person is going to be sort of the solution

or the answer to all of our problems and

and that's the honeymoon phase in a nutshell right it's finding this person who

seems perfect and we want to believe that they're the answer to our prayers and then

eventually the deeper we get into relationship we find ourselves back in that

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