I think we've all had difficulties, but some people really hold on to that and it affects

them forever, where other people can just let it go and let it just move on, like it's

done, like that's what it was. Love the person they are today, that's my important.

That's a really, really important point that for me appears to be the answer to a lot

of the energy, the negative energy I experience in my direct messages from people, is there

an inability to let go of someone that's wrong them? And the real shame is, because that

person's wrong them, once upon a time, they're then dragging that negativity through their

life and letting it destroy their future and their present.

Yeah, and like, you know, I've got someone that's really close to me that had a really

bad experience with their dad when they were younger, and they just won't let go.

And I see it, damaging their adult life now, even though they don't speak to their dad

anymore, but because they just won't forgive that person. So how do you forgive someone

more generally, not just your parents, but how do you forgive someone that's, you know,

harmed or done you wrong in the past? What's the...

I totally, I can hear that message and I can see where that's coming from because, you

know, my mom and dad, they've had their own trauma, such a such an extent that they've

been, you know, therapy and all their lives and also, you know, with addiction, it's

manifest in different ways, but it makes me sad all that you want, all you want is your

mum and dad to be happy and they want the people around you to be happy. But for some,

sometimes I can see they've been struggling their whole life to let go of whatever it is

just hurting them and, you know, holding them back. And for me, it's a case of, I just

believe that you have to live for the moment. You have to enjoy the day. Like, what's going

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