You talked about relationships at the start of this podcast.

You said, you said, you, I think you alluded to the fact that you hadn't had much luck

there.

When we were talking about knowing you're enough.

Yeah.

What's going on?

Yeah, this is a real problem.

So there's a few like narratives that I've brought into subconsciously.

One of those narratives is that I am like a Weedy nerd kid.

Like the kid that I was when I was 12 years old and getting slightly put in school and

getting grades and stuff.

But like not really have anything, anything, not being valuable as a human being beyond

the fact that I was generating a stars in exams.

That's like one side of it.

There's another side, but I'd love to hear you take on what's the other side?

The other side is if we're keeping it real.

It's like, I think it's around masculinity and what it means to be a man.

And if one word to hypothetically read, wiki how articles on how to get girls or even the

vast literature on the topic, there is a big thing of women are attracted to men.

Like people who are so, so someone who is a man, someone who leads, someone who's like

alpha, those sorts of, those sorts of things.

And I think my kind of default way of being is very not that.

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