This is probably the most popular question I'm sure you get, which is like, how do you

keep it fresh?

What advice would you give me to keep my sex life with a partner I've been with for X-Matt

of years?

Still fresh, exciting and exploratory.

Yeah, I think it's the question everyone wants to answer to.

It is about ASP's first thing, acknowledging that it might be different to how it used

to be.

So, again, when I think the biggest hurdles people can get kind of tripped over on is it's

not the same as it used to be or it changed.

Now, why does that mean it's worse?

You know, actually, perhaps the quality of the sex that people might be having might

be better because they know each other better, they understand each other's bodies better,

they feel more in tune with each other.

So, it's understanding that you might be in a different phase or stage and that's okay,

it doesn't have to be that famous phrase, the honeymoon period that everybody quotes or

goes back to.

So, I think that is one thing and I think actually carving out the time and the space and

the effort and not seeing that as a bad thing, not seeing that as problematic, that we have

to be a bit more conscious of that part of our relationships is a huge, huge factor

because what the kind of common narrative we see in society, I suppose, is if I have

to make an effort for this, then there must be something wrong with that because sex

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