You're on the virtue. I'd speaking of which I mean you are living with the fear that they are messing around

And it's got no point where you're putting a tracker on their phone

Then you know this thing's already over. Yeah, this is a Scott and really bad. Good friend of mine is going through this

And he came to me for some advice and I struggled with what to tell him because we are two completely different people

And that's when he gave me full rain to really just come on and talk about it and see what other people would think

So

Just a little quick background. He has been this is my dude. He's been in this relationship for about three years now

It's a very serious relationship someone who he was definitely considering spending the rest of his life with they have a kid together

Kids and from other past relationships as well, and they've just kind of made it one big happy family

They have a blended family now. They do and for the most part really healthy relationship

There's been no infidelity in the past or anything like that and he is a very

Non-confrontational person that is completely who he is

He does not like to address the elephant in the room

He does not like to have any type of confrontations. That's just not him. He's a really

Just nice guy outgoing guy always wants to keep everything positive. That's who he is. That doesn't necessarily make it nice guy

But he is a nice guy that's true, right? But he he's a genuine

Genuinely nice guy and so I can understand why he's really struggling with this decision that he now has to make so

He tells me that I don't know where his his girlfriend comes up to him one day and starts to talk about one of her best friends who

Is going through an infidelity issue in her marriage and he said he kind of felt like her energy toward him for a while

Was a bit different because he thinks it's because he actually was hanging out with the guy that cheated on her best friend

So for some reason

Maybe it's heaped in her mind that he may be either new what was really going on or he was actually taking part

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