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The Art of Charm

Minisode Monday #57 | The Way We Treat the Ones We Meet

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Business, Health & Fitness, Education

4.711K Ratings

🗓️ 12 June 2017

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to Minisode Monday, where we kick off the week with something quick and actionable -- to make you more magnetic and effective -- that you can implement right away. This time around, we show how making a small change in how we treat people we meet promotes a mindset shift in the way we're perceived and the way we perceive ourselves. Let's get to it! The Cheat Sheet: Take the extra effort to treat everyone you meet as if you're going to know each other forever. Think about it: if you're in a lousy mood, you might be more dismissive about someone you think you'll never see again. But the world's smaller than you think -- act as if you might cross paths again with the people you meet, because it's always a possibility. This doesn't mean you have to approach everyone as if they're going to be your new best friend, but being mindful of the fact you may meet again will make you more conscious of how you act toward them. As we demonstrate here, just the simple act of being nice to people can make a big difference -- in how you're perceived and how you feel about yourself. To learn more about social dynamics and productivity hacks, take the Art of Charm Challenge by clicking here, or text CHARMED to 33444. Also be sure to check out our Social Capital Intensive here! Let us know about how you put today's Minisode Monday into practice! Tweet with @TheArtofCharm in your response or write to Jordan directly: jordan@theartofcharm.com (he actually reads everything)! To truly thrive in all areas of your life, you can't ignore the importance of good health. Try Organifi Green Juice for 20% off using code "charm" when checking out at organifi.com! Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Listen to The Art of Charm, Forbes Network, and hundreds of your favorite podcasts with the free PodcastOne app (on iOS and Android) here! Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/minisode-monday-57-the-way-we-treat-the-ones-we-meet/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey Jordan Harbinger here from the Art of Charm welcome to many sod Monday

0:03.6

You're weekly shot of personal development espresso happy to be here with you kicking off the week with something quick and

0:09.2

Actionable that you can implement right away that'll make you more magnetic and effective now this one is a short one

0:15.1

But a very important one that was kind of life-changing for me in some way

0:18.3

It's essentially a mindset shift which is every time you meet someone and

0:23.7

In fact people you've met before starting now treat every relationship like you will know that person forever

0:32.0

Even if you've only known them a few seconds and this is kind of a cool little trick because

0:37.0

You put in a little bit of extra effort you put in a little bit of extra energy and it really does inform

0:43.0

How you treat other people because Jason I don't know about you, but

0:46.8

Sometimes if I'm cranky and I'm tired and I'm whatever and I think I'm never gonna see this person again

0:52.6

I might be a little shorter with them than I normally would and I'm definitely giving myself

0:57.5

Subconscious permission to do that because I just figure out I'm not gonna see this person

1:00.7

But it one day I was hanging out somewhere and I was I don't know

1:04.5

I said an airport or something like this is a couple years back and I ran into somebody and I was like

1:09.2

I'm excusing how to take this but you know with the luggage the baggage claim just kind of bumped into someone's leg

1:13.8

It was like whenever I'm I'm out of it and then I saw that person at a conference and then we had the speakers dinner together

1:19.1

And I remember thinking like now I got to be like hey, sorry

1:22.3

I ran into it the baggage claim. I was out of it and just it felt so stupid because it was such an avoidable thing and

1:28.6

Had I thought for one second that I would ever see that person again

1:32.0

I would never have done I wouldn't have handled the situation that way and so I started to shift the way that I think about

1:39.4

Relationships with people and I just start to treat them like look. This is my neighbor

1:42.8

I'm definitely gonna see them again doesn't doesn't have to be this person's gonna be my new best friend

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