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Heart of Dating

MINISERIES: How to Date as an Overthinker | Dating Personality Types

Heart of Dating

That Sounds Fun Network

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.8 • 2.1K Ratings

🗓️ 18 June 2025

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

Today we’re unpacking the “Overthinker” dating personality with Kait and JJ, who offer wisdom, practical tips, and encouragement for anyone caught in a cycle of indecision in their dating life! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating   Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest  Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library  Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast  Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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1:00.8

So, brooklynbetting.com. The code is so easy, HOD for 30% off. What is the blessing and

1:06.3

the gift of overthinking? They want wisdom. And wisdom is really good. God wants us to be discerning and to be wise. A lot of times, overthinking. They want wisdom and wisdom is really good. God wants us to be discerning and to be

1:13.3

wise. A lot of times overthinkers, they use discernment as a disguise for their fear, for their

1:20.0

avoidance of risk. And trust me, love is a huge risk. Totally, totally, totally. For an overthinker,

1:27.1

their core motivation is to make the right decision and avoid risk. Totally. Totally. Totally. For an overthinker, their core motivation is to make the right

1:29.2

decision and avoid regret. They're really driven by thinking and then feeling. I need you to start

1:35.1

reading your Bible through this lens. Look at God calling people into uncertainty time and time and

1:42.2

time again. In some ways, we always kind of marry the wrong one.

1:45.2

But at the end of the day, when you are on the altar, you need to choose everything about that

1:50.2

person, the good and the bad, everything about them, and say, I choose you, and I'm going to marry

1:55.5

you and be committed to you onto the covenant of the Lord.

2:16.0

If your dating life looks like an endless list of hypotheticals, what if over-analyzing texts?

2:19.9

Is this mixed signals? Is this a red flag? Should I say something?

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