MINISERIES: Falling Fast, Feeling Hard: The Hopeless Romantic Trap | Dating Personality Types

Heart of Dating

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🗓️ 11 June 2025

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Today we’re unpacking the Hopeless Romantic dating personality type as JJ explores the thrills, pitfalls, and wisdom needed for those who love big and fall fast. Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en . . . . . Check out this week's sponsor: Better Help: This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HOD and get on your way to being your best self. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	This is my dating personality type. I'm definitely the hopeless romantic. If you don't know where
0:05.8	you stand with somebody, you are probably going to freak out and downward spiral and question
0:10.2	everything. I'm speaking from experience here. You've built a future in your head before even getting
0:17.1	any kind of clarity in real life. Meaning in reality, you guys have said hello,
0:21.7	you've DMed three times,
0:23.3	and meanwhile, your heart has zoomed out ahead.
0:26.5	The hopeless romantic is gonna say,
0:28.7	why doesn't anybody want me?
0:30.6	They also might be thinking,
0:32.1	if this feels so strong, it must be the one.
0:35.9	The advice you need, not want, but need is opposite to what you naturally do.
0:41.5	So for you, if committing too fast is what you naturally do, the opposite would be committing
0:46.5	over time.
0:47.5	Hope is a beautiful thing.
0:49.4	But hope detached from discernment can definitely lead to disappointment and it honestly is a lack of
0:56.9	wisdom.
1:07.8	If dating feels like a rom-com that always ends in disappointment, or if you're a person that falls hard and falls fast, this episode is for you.
1:17.7	Does that sound familiar?
1:19.3	Yeah, just a little bit.
1:21.5	If you have ever wondered what your dating personality style is, we created a brand new free quiz that you can take on our website,
1:28.9	heartofdating.com forward slash quiz. There are six different personality types when it comes to dating.
1:35.7	And today we're talking about the hopeless romantic. Okay. Whether it's you or maybe it's a person
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