MINISERIES: God Didn’t Call You to Settle | Dating Personality Types

Heart of Dating

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Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Relationships

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🗓️ 25 June 2025

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Today we’re exploring the Safety Seeker dating personality as Kait and JJ unpack its challenges and strengths—and encourage Safety Seekers to raise their standards for a thriving, godly relationship! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en . . . . . Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:46.5	bed, even your bed. We have toppers now on all of our mattresses and we've never gotten
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1:05.5	Safety seekers ultimately at the end of the day are deeply uncomfortable with conflict.
1:10.4	Said they will do anything. Apologize, lay down, be a doormat
1:14.6	just to have some summons of peace, which is actually a form of control.
1:19.3	Your nickname is Captain Worst Case Scenario,
1:22.1	because indeed you are going to run through worst case scenarios
1:25.4	and you're just going to think like I need to stay safe.
1:27.5	So for the hardest match for the safety seeker, surprise, surprise, it's the wanderer.
1:33.4	Wow.
1:34.9	Wow.
1:35.5	Big surprise.
1:37.0	You know, JJ, you're a wanderer.
1:38.8	And for most of our dating personalities, the wanderer is kind of the worst type to date.
1:43.0	Yeah, it's really not good.
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