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Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Mid-Singles and Sexuality Q&A

Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Mental Health, Education

4.71.1K Ratings

🗓️ 10 June 2026

⏱️ 73 minutes

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Summary

Dating, sexuality, and romantic relationships are tricky enough when we're young — but life experience, past hurts, and complicated relationship histories add a whole new layer of complexity for those of us who are single in midlife. The simple answers and guidelines that once felt sufficient don't quite hold anymore. If it feels like the framework and guidance you were offered as a teen isn't working, it's because it was intended for someone at an entirely different stage in life. Midlife singlehood asks something more, because you've lived enough to know that life doesn't always go as planned, and the choices in front of you now carry a depth and consequence that call you toward the spirit of the law, not just the letter of it. During this Q&A discussion, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks directly to mid-singles — whether never married, divorced, or widowed — answering their real questions on topics including: What chastity actually means for adults with sexual history How to relate to desire and sexuality without fear running the show Dating wisely without repeating old patterns What to look for in a partner  How to use this season as an opportunity for growth — regardless of what comes next ANNOUCEMENTS: Get your tickets for JFF's FIRST-EVER event for singles HERE Save 20% on Cozy Earth pajamas, sheets and more with code JFF20

Transcript

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0:00.0

Life will always at some point ask of us to move beyond thinking as a child and childish things

0:08.8

and moving into deeper self-authorship. That is choosing in a world that has more complexity

0:17.6

than we wish it did.

0:27.2

Thank you. more complexity than we wish it did. Before we get started with today's episode, I wanted to share an exciting announcement.

0:32.0

I'm going to be in Alpine, Utah on September 10th, hosting my first ever event specifically for singles.

0:38.5

Click the link in the show notes for details and ticket information.

0:43.0

The response to our recent Q&A, which we're releasing today, was incredibly positive.

0:48.5

And so we've had numerous requests for a live event to dive deeper on the topics of singlehood, navigating sexuality,

0:58.2

dating, and creating better relationships than perhaps the ones we've come out of.

1:03.3

So whether you've never been married, if you're divorced, widowed, I'm going to be having

1:08.0

a grounded conversation on sexuality and chastity as an adult, how to date wisely without repeating old patterns, and what it looks like to use this season as an opportunity for real growth.

1:20.5

So we hope to see you on September 10th, and I hope you enjoy the Q&A.

1:25.5

Thanks, everyone.

1:29.7

Welcome, everybody.

1:31.2

We're really glad to be having this conversation tonight on what it is to be single and some of the challenges that you face as Latter-day Saints confronting a lot of questions around sexuality and being in relationships.

1:46.8

I think Christy proposed doing this, you know, I don't know, maybe a month or two ago, and

1:51.3

we've just had a lot of interests. So I'm not surprised, you know, but the focus of my work has

1:56.8

generally been working with married couples, but a population of the church is progressively

2:03.6

more single, and these are important and hard questions in a church that is focused on chastity

2:11.1

and marriage. So there are way more questions than I have time for tonight, but I think

2:17.4

we will continue to work in this

2:20.4

space and perhaps even create live events and opportunities to learn together and to meet

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