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Guaranteed Human.

I am Iyamla.

I've been very open about the fact that I was not always good and making my relationships

work.

I have been divorced three times twice from the same person.

In other words, I have seen a lot and failed a lot in my relationships.

So I am here to share with you what I learned along the way because I did take copious notes.

Welcome to the R Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with IHeart Radio.

Thank you. Shandalan Audio in partnership with IHeart Radio.

You know, sometimes as women, I think that we think that men don't have feelings and they don't have hearts.

Now, sometimes it's because of the way that they behave.

And sometimes it's because of the stories we make up about them.

I also think that sometimes men don't know how to say what they feel. And as women, we don't know how to hear it. Sometimes I think we're so busy trying to talk them out of what they're thinking that we don't

give honor to their feeling. I put a call out and I said I wanted to talk to men.

Because I know the one place a man is willing to be vulnerable and share his heart is when it

comes to dealing with his children.

And sometimes as mothers and women, we don't honor and respect a man's heart as a father.

So my hope is that in listening to my next caller, my guest for today, that women will rethink what they think about how men feel.

Take a listen.

Greetings, beloved. Welcome to the R spot.

Wow. How are you, man?

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