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Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Men and Intimacy [ONE DAY SALE!]

Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Mental Health, Education

4.71.1K Ratings

🗓️ 18 June 2026

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

ALL COURSES 30% OFF TODAY ONLY! code DAD30 We tend to assume men are naturally sexual, comfortable with desire, and quick to want sex. But comfort and ease are not the same thing. Many men carry a private discomfort with their own sexual nature, especially men raised in traditions where sexuality is treated as suspect. And so they look to their wife's desire to make their own sexuality feel acceptable, a dependency that hides behind the appearance of confidence. In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Rhonda Farr to talk about men's difficulty with their own sexuality, why higher desire can mask a deeper insecurity, and how men can move from proving themselves through sex to actually blessing their marriage through it. 

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0:00.0

Hey everyone. Today only we are offering 30% off of any of our online courses in celebration of Father's Day.

0:11.0

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0:18.6

So if you've been eyeing a course, today is the best day to do it. Again, use the code

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dad 30. Click the link in the show notes to learn more. Welcome back everybody. Today we are again

0:35.3

speaking with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson 5.

0:37.8

She's been on once before, but it's been over a year, I think.

0:40.8

So the audience has changed a little bit since we last spoke.

0:44.7

So I'm excited to have her back, and I'm going to let her tell you just a little bit about an upcoming course that she has, and then we're going to dive right in.

0:52.5

Yeah.

0:53.0

So, well, I just, I do online courses for mostly the LDS community because that's my

0:59.6

faith tradition and background.

1:01.7

And so I do online courses for couples, relationship course, sexuality course, and then a sexuality

1:09.9

course or desire course for women. And I'm also

1:12.3

in the process of creating one for men around men's sexuality, which I think we're going to be

1:17.9

talking about a bit today as well. Yeah. When you say men sexuality, like what do you mean,

1:22.6

them owning their sexuality, navigating all of it? What do you mean by that? Yeah, all of that.

1:27.3

I mean,

1:27.7

the women's course that I developed is really about women coming to terms with themselves

1:35.9

and, importantly, their sexuality. So to really be someone more capable of desire and passion,

1:43.8

as I see it as a kind of capacity that one has.

1:47.5

Men's sexuality is a little bit different because we tend to think of men as naturally sexual,

1:53.8

but especially when you have come out of a faith tradition where sexuality is suspect or is

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